Saturday, June 8, 2013

Relationship Problems

My client said she had just started dating a new man he liked quite a bit ad was having some anxiety that he would want to end the relationship. She felt that it wasn't actually about this relationship because these feelings came up many times before. I found that it had to do with her father. I got that she felt as a child that she had to win his love. She had to earn it and it seemed her efforts were never good enough. I cleared that out, had her subconscious believe it was not because of her it was his issue. I got that he was just busy with his career and gone a lot. Energetically she wasn't very close to her mother, had feelings of abandonment from her. That was cleared. I got some past life experiences where her husband died of disease. Released why love them if they are going to leave me. I can't be possibly good enough for them to stay.
Her worth to herself was by caring for others, releasing that. She didn't make herself her reference point. She didn't see how others benefit her just how she could be good for them. someone wanting to be with her was more important that if she wanted to be with them. Releasing the dynamic of having to earn love from father, other men. Strong for feeling secure within herself. Pulled her power back from father, all men, feeling abandoned, neglected, unloved. Own it, hold it. Now she is strong for whether he calls or not and knowing she will be fine either way.

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